Mediation instead of litigation

A couple in the process of divorce in the mediator’s office

We are not looking for “the truth”

In mediation, our goal is not to decide who is right. The main goal is to resolve the conflict. For this we need an intermediary—this professional is called a mediator. Everyone has the choice and the opportunity to decide which path they want to take to resolve their conflicts. The best method of dispute resolution is mediation. Here at Mediátorpont, we provide you with maximum support.

Dr. Dorottya Farkas, LL.M., signs the mediation settlement

We do not issue judgments

It is important to know that a mediator does not make a decision or deliver a judgment like a judge at the end of a lawsuit. In every question that arises, the affected parties decide, and only what they approve is recorded in the settlement. Mediation is therefore a settlement process guided and facilitated by the mediator. A major advantage of mediation is that it can produce a creative solution to your problem that might not be possible within court frameworks.

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Mediation is about the parties

You are the main protagonists of the case. We are experts in mediation—meaning we understand conflict management and the negotiation process, not necessarily the subject matter of the dispute itself. We help you with questions until you reach an agreement, and we show you how to see the conflict differently. We also help change the communication between you— even if that may have seemed unimaginable before mediation.

A friend gives divorce advice in a café

We do not give advice

Because mediation is not about the mediator, but about the parties’ interests and needs. If a mediator were to give advice, take sides, or make decisions on disputed issues, then the settlement would not belong to the parties, but to the mediator. People facing divorce—by the time they arrive at our office—have usually already received plenty of well-meant advice from friends and family members.

Handshake after divorce mediation

Our settlements are workable

The essence of mediation is that the mediator guides and manages a process. At the end, a document is created that is acceptable and workable for all participants. Decisions are made by the clients, and the terms written in the settlement are formulated together. Settlements reached through mediation are typically complied with in the long term, because the parties themselves decided what would be included.

The man does not want to hear what is being said to him

We definitely won’t say this

  • Your counterpart is right.
  • The other party is entitled to this or that.
  • What you need to do is…
  • You are obliged to…
  • You are not entitled to…
  • As a mediator, I decide that…

The mediation process

1. Making the decision

As a first step, you need to decide that instead of litigation, you choose mediation. Mediation is a voluntary process, and starting it requires the consent of all parties.

2. Booking an appointment

You agree on the date of the in-person meeting with the mediator. We hold a separate, one-on-one preliminary consultation with each party.

3. Preliminary consultation

A good opportunity to receive further information about the purpose and process of mediation, and to clarify practical matters.

4. Mediation

A mediation session lasts up to 3 hours. In many cases, an agreement is reached sooner.

5. Additional mediation session(s)

If no agreement is reached at the first meeting, further mediation consultations are recommended.

6. Without an agreement

If there is no agreement, the parties may seek legal remedy through court proceedings.

7. Agreement

The mediator records the settlement in writing, which is signed by all parties.

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8. Filing the petition

Together with the settlement, the petition can be submitted to the competent court.

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Comparing mediation and litigation

Mediation

Voluntary

Litigation

Not voluntary
If someone is sued, they cannot simply opt out of the lawsuit.

Mediation

Private process

Litigation

Court proceedings
Court proceedings are public by default.

Mediation

Calm and client-friendly
A low-stress environment

Litigation

Official atmosphere
You must pass through a metal detector when entering.

Mediation

Flexible framework
The parties determine the framework of the discussions.

Litigation

Strict framework
The procedure is determined by laws and procedural rules.

Mediation

No burden of proof
There is no need to submit evidence.

Litigation

There is a burden of proof
The court conducts an evidentiary procedure.

Mediation

Your own decisions
The parties make the decisions themselves.

Litigation

Judicial decisions
The judge delivers the judgment.

Mediation

A predictable timeframe
It can be concluded within a few weeks.

Litigation

An unpredictable duration
It can drag on for years.

Mediation

Significantly cheaper
No court fee, expert fee, or appeal costs.

Litigation

Significantly more expensive
It involves costs that cannot be predicted in advance.

Mediation

A win for everyone
A solution acceptable to both parties.

Litigation

Someone loses
One party wins, the other loses.

Mediation

Future cooperation is possible
The parties can remain able to cooperate.

Litigation

Problematic cooperation
The relationship often deteriorates.

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